How Proust Can Change Your Life

by Alain de Botton
Switzerland
Born on 20 Dec 1969
Writer / Philosopher

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Our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
It might be a Proustian slogan: n'allez pas trop vite. And an advantage of not going by too fast is that the world has a chance of becoming more interesting in the process.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
When two people part, it is the one who is not in love who makes the tender speeches.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
To make it into a discipline is to give too large a role to what is only an incitement. Reading is on the threshold of the spiritual life; it can introduce us to it: it does not constitute it.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
There is a danger of developing a blanket distaste for modern life which could have its attractions but lack the all-important images to help us identify them.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
One cannot read a novel without ascribing to the heroine the traits of the one we love.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
Though we sometimes suspect that people are hiding things from us, it is not until we are in love that we feel an urgency to press our inquiries, and in seeking answers, we are apt to discover the extent to which people disguise and conceal their real lives.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
Love is an incurable disease. In love, there is permanent suffering. Those who love and those who are happy are not the same.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.

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How Proust Can Change Your Life

Alain de Botton

 

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