Alain de Botton

Switzerland
Born on 20 Dec 1969
Writer / Philosopher

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Whatever modern democracies may tell themselves about their commitment to free speech and to diversity of opinion, the values of a given society will uncannily match those of whichever organizations have the scale to pay for runs of thirty-second slots around the nightly news bulletin.

Religion for Atheists: A Non-Believer's Guide to the Uses of Religion
We may value foreign elements not only because they are new but because they seem to accord more faithfully with our identity and commitments than anything our homeland can provide.

The Art of Travel
Judged against eternity, how little of what agitates us makes any difference.

Status Anxiety
Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.

Status Anxiety
Being put in our place by something larger, older, greater than ourselves is not a humiliation; it should be accepted as a relief from our insanely hopeful ambitions for our lives.

Religion for Atheists: A Non-Believer's Guide to the Uses of Religion
Though debts are condemned in the financial world, the world of friendship and love may perversely depend on well-managed debts.

The Romantic Movement: Sex, Shopping, and the Novel
As victims of hurt, we frequently don't bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.

Religion for Atheists: A Non-Believer's Guide to the Uses of Religion
One cannot read a novel without ascribing to the heroine the traits of the one we love.

How Proust Can Change Your Life
The sole cause of a man's unhappiness is that he does not know how to stay quietly in his room.

The Art of Travel
Sex gets us out of the house and out of ourselves.

How to Think More About Sex
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On Anger: "For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind."
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On Destiny: "Our destiny exercises its influence over us even when, as yet, we have not learned its nature: it is our future that lays down the law of our today."
Human, All Too Human
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