How to Think More About Sex

by Alain de Botton
Switzerland
Born on 20 Dec 1969
Writer / Philosopher

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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn't know rejection and humiliation so intimately.

How to Think More About Sex
Once we are involved in a relationship, there is no longer any such thing as a minor detail.

How to Think More About Sex
Sex gets us out of the house and out of ourselves.

How to Think More About Sex
Beneath the kiss itself, it is its meaning that interests us�which is why the desire to kiss someone can be decisively reduced (as it may need be, for instance, when two lovers are already married to other people) by a declaration of that desire � a confession which may in itself be so erotic as to render the actual kiss superfluous.

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