Anais Nin

United States
21 Feb 1903 // 14 Jan 1977
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Each contact with a human being is so rare, so precious, one should preserve it.
I write emotional algebra.
The only abnormality is the incapacity to love.
I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by losing.
Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.
You cannot save people. You can only love them.
What can I do with my happiness? How can I keep it, conceal it, bury it where I may never lose it? I want to kneel as it falls over me like rain, gather it up with lace and silk, and press it over myself again.

Henry and June: From A Journal of Love - The Unexpurgated Diary of Ana�s Nin (1931-1932)
I will always be the virgin-prostitute, the perverse angel, the two-faced sinister and saintly woman.

Henry and June: From A Journal of Love - The Unexpurgated Diary of Ana�s Nin (1931-1932)
We are like sculptors, constantly carving out of others the image we long for, need, love or desire, often against reality, against their benefit, and always, in the end, a disappointment, because it does not fit them.
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